I became a military spouse in 2009, unaware of the life that awaited me—one filled with sacrifice, resilience, deep friendships, and moments of both heartbreak and joy. No one prepares you for the silent goodbyes, the weight of the flag, or the strength you find when you're completely alone. Through deployments, uncertainty, and unwavering love, I discovered what it truly means to "adapt and overcome." On this Military Spouse Appreciation Day, I share a piece of my heart—and a photo I’ve never shared before—in honor of every spouse who has ever stood in the shadows of service with quiet courage and boundless love.